Older women
likewise are to be reverent in their behavior,
not malicious
gossips
nor enslaved
to much wine,
teaching what is
good,
so that they
may encourage the young women
to love their
husbands,
to love their
children,
to be sensible,
pure,
workers at
home,
kind,
being subject
to their own husbands,
so that the word
of God will not be dishonored.
Titus 2:3,4,5
We have memorized all of Titus 2:3,4,5 except the last two
phrases. I wrote out the complete verse set so we could see where we have been
and where we are going.
These verses have become my statement
of purpose for my life right now. This is not a statement of who I am but of
who I want to be. The other night while wrestling my youngest daughter for
couch space I said out loud, "Is this reverent behavior in an older
woman?". We laughed even harder because what we were doing
seemed so ridiculous.
Do you have a statement of purpose? What question do you ask yourself if you find yourself wondering if you are doing what you should be doing?
In these verses I see 13 questions that we could ask ourselves.
1) Is my behavior reverent?
2) Is this gossip?
3) Will this lead to desire in me or
others to drink too much?
4) Is this good?
5) Does this discourage a young woman
in what is right?
6) Does this show love for my
husband?
7) Does this show love for my
children?
8) Is this sensible?
9) Is this pure?
10) Does this make my home
a pleasant place?
11)Is it kind?
12)Is this what my husband would
want?
13)Is God's Word being dishonored?
Thanks for these questions, Joyce. I was needing to reflect on several of them. It's so easy to use tiredness as an excuse for sinning. But these were good for me to go over and get God's perspective.
ReplyDeleteIt is easy to sin when I am tired or hungry. It is important to listen to our bodies needs. Once at camp I told the speaker that I was tired. He replied that sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is take a nap and that I should skip his message and sleep. We need to listen to our bodies, but not indulge the flesh, a very difficult balance.
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